When sex gets boring...

[L777]

...its half one in the morning and I'm kinda feeling down right now. I just got with this girl, about a 7.5, and now I feel empty. I mean, the 'chase' leading up to sex is exciting and all, and the climax is obviously pleasurable, but I don't get the same thrill outa it as before...does anyone else get this?

I mean, I laid 2 girls in my afc days, and it took a lot of work and AFC ass-kissing, but I was so sure that it (sex) wouldn't happen again with another girl for a long time unless I got lucky, that I appreciated it so much more...and it felt good to connect mentally with these girls, then cuddle afterwards, and generally just kiss ass for letting me sleep with her. Now its just like, we have sex then....nothing...I'll stick some music on, she'll clean up then go, and I'll be bored again.

This post isn't really a question, just a rant kinda thing...I dunno, does anyone else feel the same way ever? I certainly didn't get into the game to feel bored with sex and in general...what should I do? Have even more fb's/one night stands? Get a g/f...buy a pet etc? Any suggestions??

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Uh-oh... You could be turning into one of those guys who may start looking at the quality of the women you sarge more than the quantity. :nono:
Anyone can fvck, it take much more effort to be interesting (and it goes both ways).

 

[L777]

Uh-oh... You could be turning into one of those guys who may start looking at the quality of the women you sarge more than the quantity. :nono:
Anyone can fvck, it take much more effort to be interesting (and it goes both ways).

Did you mix the word quantity and quality up in this reply? That would seem to make more sense/

 

[penkitten]

Did you mix the word quantity and quality up in this reply? That would seem to make more sense/

no he didnt. re read it sweetie.

 

[WC2]

Uh-oh... You could be turning into one of those guys who may start looking at the quality of the women you sarge more than the quantity. :nono:
Anyone can fvck, it take much more effort to be interesting (and it goes both ways).

Bingo.

 

[L777]

No i think you misunderstand. i was just trying to see if anyone got this empty and bored feeling after having no-strings sex with girls you don't know that well. Its got nothing to do with quality of women/quantity of women/sarging...i'm asking this as a person, not as a PUA looking for ways to get better at PU

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

No i think you misunderstand. i was just trying to see if anyone got this empty and bored feeling after having no-strings sex with girls you don't know that well.

Yep, we got it. You haven't quite yet, perhaps you will.

 

[banGbro]

What is the definition of Don Juan?

 

[L777]

Yep, we got it. You haven't quite yet, perhaps you will.

Any need? I told you it doesnt have anything to do with sarging, so obviously a reply that basically tells me to sarge more is obviously irrelevant.

I didn't expect much in terms of replies here... that wasn't really the purporse of the thread...but theres no need to be like that.

Anyway I'm off to bed....suppose I'll just "sarge" another 100 "sets" tomorrow...lol...ey you cheered me up a bit

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Any need? I told you it doesnt have anything to do with sarging, so obviously a reply that basically tells me to sarge more is obviously irrelevant....

Sorry folks, he doesn't get it...

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Sorry folks, he doesn't get it...

LOL..... I agree he's completely lost as to what your trying to say. Its funny because that's the obvious answer to this "rant" but he still can't see it.



PIMP

 

[penkitten]

No i think you misunderstand.

no, its you sweatpea

i was just trying to see if anyone got this empty and bored feeling after having no-strings sex with girls you don't know that well.

thats the "oh, i really have gotta stop banging a big quanity of people and start looking for quality people instead" feeling or the "banging strangers isnt what i want anymore" feeling.

Its got nothing to do with quality of women/quantity of women/sarging...i'm asking this as a person, not as a PUA looking for ways to get better at PU

see above.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

LOL..... I agree he's completely lost as to what your trying to say. Its funny because that's the obvious answer to this "rant" but he still can't see it.

Long ago I learned that most people can usually only believe what they can understand. Sometimes I wonder if the inverse could also be true.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

LOL!


Tongue---Planted----Firmly----in----CHEEK.


Francisco...

 

[bigjohnson]

Reading comprehension is not always a given I suppose.

Dude - he's saying that you might end up thinking about getting with better women pretty soon. Instead of notching your belt. Whew.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Women were not made for mere sexual pleasure - this is the hors domain - you are seeking "femininity", which hors do not possess!!! Say "No" to Hos

 

[mexican_player2]

yeah man i have felt the same thing as you.

what i think that is happening to you is that you take that girl for granted, and then you start thinking you can do better, you be like damn i want something better than this piece of chit.

just look for a girl that you like a lot physically and that is very fun to be with and i bet you wont be like that no more

also you seem like you are depressed, remember that a ***** wont make you happy at all.

 

[onyx]

I've recently in the last 4 month or so stopped banging the quantity and looking for quality i think im getting t picky though

 

[Last Man Standing]

Long ago I learned that most people can usually only believe what they can understand. Sometimes I wonder if the inverse could also be true.

Francisco, this is a fairly deep and insightful statement, for those who think!!!

 

[L777]

Reading comprehension is not always a given I suppose.

Dude - he's saying that you might end up thinking about getting with better women pretty soon. Instead of notching your belt. Whew.

Oh ok, sorry for my slowness ...I was slightly tipsy! But its not like the girls are bad quality or I don't get on with them...

Its weird...I know for a fact I don't want a girlfriend, but still feel like I did last night when, and especially after, I'm with somone...maybe I'm just too hard to please or something