"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When sex gets boring...

Francisco d'Anconia

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L777 said:
Oh ok, sorry for my slowness :D...I was slightly tipsy! But its not like the girls are bad quality or I don't get on with them...

Its weird...I know for a fact I don't want a girlfriend, but still feel like I did last night when, and especially after, I'm with somone...maybe I'm just too hard to please or something
This is one of the reasons why I started this thread. The more I think about it, I'm realizing it's an important thing to consider even if you aren't looking for a relationship; just if you are looking for a quality woman. I'm going to reveal what I'm getting at in a little bit.

Question for the guys who would like to be in a relationship.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Last Man Standing said:
Women were not made for mere sexual pleasure - this is the hors domain - you are seeking "femininity", which hors do not possess!!! Say "No" to Hos

That's pretty deep too.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Francisco, this is a fairly deep and insightful statement, for those who think!!! :up:
Hey, I have my moments once my meds kick in (or is it when they ware off?).
 
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