"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When out in a group, how do you get a girl alone?

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I know this sounds like a retarded question, but...

There's this ridiculously hot girl that goes to the same culinary school I do. And we've hung out a couple times. we went to the zoo the other day, in a group. every time i see her, there's always at least two people with her. And she shows signs of interest towards me. She laughs at the jokes, respons well to C+F, playful hitting, etc.

And she wants to go out with me and my group of friends this Friday night when we go eat and drink afterward.

And I really want to get her alone.

Any advice on how to do so? If I need to be more specific about anything, just ask please.

Thanks, fellas.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You just take her hand and pull her off to the side and say "lets go have a drink over here" or something like that.

Its not so much as what you say but how you say it.

1. Lead. Take her hand and lead her to the spot you want her to be with you.
2. You can tell her friends, you are going to steal her from them for a bit. But her friends have to like you and know you for this to work. This is important because women rely on the approval of her friends.
3. Be completely sure of yourself and your actions when you do this and LEAD.
 
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Well, she's hanging out with my group of friends. So, they all love me.

And, thanks for the advice. I greatly appreciate it!
 
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Like, the other guy said. Or you can just say; Hey, come over here with me for a bit."
 
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Thanks, man.

I suppose if she doesn't break away from the group or if she shies off on her own or something, then there's no use in trying any further?

I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yuma said:
I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
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I know it's tough, but try not to have this attitude. If you care too much and invest too much in the outcome, it can work against you. Think about it, what's the worst that could happen? If she doesn't respond to your advances or isolation attempts, is it the end of the world? Not even close. It's not that big of a deal either way.
 
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