"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When out in a group, how do you get a girl alone?

Yuma

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I know this sounds like a retarded question, but...

There's this ridiculously hot girl that goes to the same culinary school I do. And we've hung out a couple times. we went to the zoo the other day, in a group. every time i see her, there's always at least two people with her. And she shows signs of interest towards me. She laughs at the jokes, respons well to C+F, playful hitting, etc.

And she wants to go out with me and my group of friends this Friday night when we go eat and drink afterward.

And I really want to get her alone.

Any advice on how to do so? If I need to be more specific about anything, just ask please.

Thanks, fellas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AGBourne

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You just take her hand and pull her off to the side and say "lets go have a drink over here" or something like that.

Its not so much as what you say but how you say it.

1. Lead. Take her hand and lead her to the spot you want her to be with you.
2. You can tell her friends, you are going to steal her from them for a bit. But her friends have to like you and know you for this to work. This is important because women rely on the approval of her friends.
3. Be completely sure of yourself and your actions when you do this and LEAD.
 

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Well, she's hanging out with my group of friends. So, they all love me.

And, thanks for the advice. I greatly appreciate it!
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Like, the other guy said. Or you can just say; Hey, come over here with me for a bit."
 

Yuma

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Thanks, man.

I suppose if she doesn't break away from the group or if she shies off on her own or something, then there's no use in trying any further?

I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

TheBucketOfTruth

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Yuma said:
I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
I know it's tough, but try not to have this attitude. If you care too much and invest too much in the outcome, it can work against you. Think about it, what's the worst that could happen? If she doesn't respond to your advances or isolation attempts, is it the end of the world? Not even close. It's not that big of a deal either way.
 
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