"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When out in a group, how do you get a girl alone?

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I know this sounds like a retarded question, but...

There's this ridiculously hot girl that goes to the same culinary school I do. And we've hung out a couple times. we went to the zoo the other day, in a group. every time i see her, there's always at least two people with her. And she shows signs of interest towards me. She laughs at the jokes, respons well to C+F, playful hitting, etc.

And she wants to go out with me and my group of friends this Friday night when we go eat and drink afterward.

And I really want to get her alone.

Any advice on how to do so? If I need to be more specific about anything, just ask please.

Thanks, fellas.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You just take her hand and pull her off to the side and say "lets go have a drink over here" or something like that.

Its not so much as what you say but how you say it.

1. Lead. Take her hand and lead her to the spot you want her to be with you.
2. You can tell her friends, you are going to steal her from them for a bit. But her friends have to like you and know you for this to work. This is important because women rely on the approval of her friends.
3. Be completely sure of yourself and your actions when you do this and LEAD.
 
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Well, she's hanging out with my group of friends. So, they all love me.

And, thanks for the advice. I greatly appreciate it!
 
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Like, the other guy said. Or you can just say; Hey, come over here with me for a bit."
 
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Thanks, man.

I suppose if she doesn't break away from the group or if she shies off on her own or something, then there's no use in trying any further?

I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yuma said:
I don't wanna f*ck this up, I really dig this girl.
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I know it's tough, but try not to have this attitude. If you care too much and invest too much in the outcome, it can work against you. Think about it, what's the worst that could happen? If she doesn't respond to your advances or isolation attempts, is it the end of the world? Not even close. It's not that big of a deal either way.
 
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