usually i just meet people at places with a group, but when i want to do something with just one girl and its foolish to meet because the place is far away, i always feel very nervous about having my mom/dad or her mom/dad in the car with us. i always feel like it would just kill the mood and be really akward. so people, when you were 15 and couldnt drive yet, what did you do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When one cant drive, what to do?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
I'm 15, I don't drive. Ask her to your house after school.
Or say "Mom, I'm meeting a girl at the [insert place of date here], cna you give me a ride?"
I ahve to lie about it though. My rents found condoms[I got them from the Trojan man at Warped Tour, they don't believe me]. I tell them I'm meeting friends inside like a movie theater, they drop me fof n I call and say my friends ar eall there. then i proceed with the date.
Or say "Mom, I'm meeting a girl at the [insert place of date here], cna you give me a ride?"
I ahve to lie about it though. My rents found condoms[I got them from the Trojan man at Warped Tour, they don't believe me]. I tell them I'm meeting friends inside like a movie theater, they drop me fof n I call and say my friends ar eall there. then i proceed with the date.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Grandmaster Sexay
Don Juan
Well if you are a bit embrassed to tell your Parents that your meeting a girl for a date. You can come up with excuses to recover it like, I am going shopping on my own and I'll ring you when I am ready to be picked up, then meet her up elsewhere. Works the trick. Or you can get a Taxi. Public transport are great if you are near them.