When on a Date… Sit Beside Her or Sit Across from Her?

[member160292]

First date? At a table? Across. Bar? Next to.

The 2 first date fallouts were me sitting next to them when across the bench was available. Finally clicked over 2 years later

 

[BadWatermelon]

Protip: every date I've had sitting at a bar led to a first night lay.

So get her drunk first. Got it.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Bar - Beside
Table - Across

Same siders are weird.

Not same side. If you're at a table circular table, sit perpendicular to her.

Never sit in a booth with her until you've already banged.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Right on. What sane person wants a dude in her lap in a booth or table on a coffee date? Lmao when there is a chair across?
Bar? Different story

Exactly why I’m glad people are responding to this with some nuance lol

 

[Bethatsocialguy]

Sit beside her. Choose a place with a sofa. When you enter, you lead her to the table which has a sofa, you stand to the side and you hold your arm out to direct her to sit down on the sofa, then you sit next to her. You may have to get her to move up a little but after that, it is golden.