when not seeing them isn't possible

[themaster07]

Hey everyone,i researched the past topics and i couldnt find anything that relates to my situation so i just wanted to hear what some of the other members would do.

I have had feelings for a girl i work with for a few months now,and we sometimes go out with a few of her girlfriends and some of my mates clubbing,and we have a good time and that.. she is in a longterm relationship so i haven't bothered trying to get with her,she is incredibly hot a 10/10er easily,and latley ive started seeing a different side of her,a bytch side.. it's like whenever she's in a good mood she's fine to talk to,but the next day she'll tell you to f*ck off lol,so ive gathered she is pretty fake to peoples faces and all about herself..

and i'd like to think ive learnt abit from this site,about one-itis etc,and to not put up with disrespect,but for some reason im finding it harder to easily move on and not be affected by her looks and whatever she does or says etc,(she knows she has a power over me),so what can you do to be over someone when you HAVE to see them every week? and they come out clubbing as well?

 

[themaster07]

cone on guys,how do you defeat a hot girl who thinks she owns you

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Well..the reason you see her "bytch" side is because you're an afc around her.How to defeat her? Not let her own you.

First mistake was fooling around with a girl you're gonna see at your workplace.Don't go clubbing with her is a good start and when she asks for something at work make her work for it or flat-out decline to help her saying you're busy.

 

[themaster07]

ohh ok thanks for that man,she often asks me to do some jobs which all comes down to how busy i am as to whether i do them straight away,and last week she asked me to do one and i said "sure" and i didnt have time,so then another girl came in and said "hey can you do this please,cause when ya do this we can go home" and i go "alright 2 secs" and i was talking to another employee and the hot bytch walks in and says "hey master how many more hours do we have to wait for you to do this????" in a *****y tone,so i said with a smirk "ohhh... anything for you!" and she gave me a dirty look and walked off lol

so more of this is needed? whenever i dont say hi to her and ignore that she's there,she always says something like "too cool to say hi to me i see..."

am i doing anything right there? i havent had alot of experiences with hotties,ive dated less attractive girls and i have no problems with them

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

She's pouring the **** tests,try to help others but not her that much.Try to make her do something for you first before you help her.Yeah keep the c+f up.


I would strongly advice to just drop most except the most basic communication with her cause you're fighting an uphill battle (in an LTR,sees you as an afc) in mud up to you waist (trying to pick up a girl you work with)