"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When is the best time to work out?

Duff

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What is the best time to workout? I'm talking heavy workouts.

I read a while back that mornings were good but now recently been told that mornings are bad because the body isnt ready for heavy work outs at that time.

What do you guys think??

Running in the morning weights at.........?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Celadus

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I think it depends on you. If you aren't a morning person than you won't get as much out of a work out as you could.

People told me mornings were the best time, but I've been going at 2 P.M. the last few days and I'm stronger, more focused, and can work out longer.

Try both and see what you like.

Running in the morning before you eat is supposed to help you loose weight. I hate running, but it is a lot more fun in the morning because I feel alone in the world.
 

Duff

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yea my sleep is fvucked up. For the past year i haven't been sleeping until aropund 5am. so i stayed up 2 nights ago and go to sleep the next day at 9.30pm. Gotta get back into the pattern.
 

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I workout in the evening, around 5-6pm. Ill eat like half my dinner before the workout, then half of it after along with a couple Ensures. Works out pretty good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Timing isn't a huge issue and you can make progress either way. The metabolism boost in the morning from weight training or HIIT would be of a greater benefit of course. Personally I workout at around 2pm lik e Celadus does.
 

xyzzy

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I agree, timing isnt that important for the average lifter... just dont work out so late that you cant get to sleep proper

personally I work out during lunch hour, it gives me an energy boost during the day and frees up the evenings
 
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