"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When is the best time to work out?

Duff

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What is the best time to workout? I'm talking heavy workouts.

I read a while back that mornings were good but now recently been told that mornings are bad because the body isnt ready for heavy work outs at that time.

What do you guys think??

Running in the morning weights at.........?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Celadus

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I think it depends on you. If you aren't a morning person than you won't get as much out of a work out as you could.

People told me mornings were the best time, but I've been going at 2 P.M. the last few days and I'm stronger, more focused, and can work out longer.

Try both and see what you like.

Running in the morning before you eat is supposed to help you loose weight. I hate running, but it is a lot more fun in the morning because I feel alone in the world.
 

Duff

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yea my sleep is fvucked up. For the past year i haven't been sleeping until aropund 5am. so i stayed up 2 nights ago and go to sleep the next day at 9.30pm. Gotta get back into the pattern.
 

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I workout in the evening, around 5-6pm. Ill eat like half my dinner before the workout, then half of it after along with a couple Ensures. Works out pretty good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Timing isn't a huge issue and you can make progress either way. The metabolism boost in the morning from weight training or HIIT would be of a greater benefit of course. Personally I workout at around 2pm lik e Celadus does.
 

xyzzy

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I agree, timing isnt that important for the average lifter... just dont work out so late that you cant get to sleep proper

personally I work out during lunch hour, it gives me an energy boost during the day and frees up the evenings
 
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