"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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When is it time to let them go

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Hey just wanted some tought on this.


I find that sometime its far from black and white what the best course of action is.

I am always willing to listen to the women im dating perspective when a issue come up, sometime they make a very good point.
And i understand them, however it make it harder for me to decide to NEXT or not.
Ridiculous non sense its a easy decision.

Those damm continuous talk about those issue are getting on my nerve.
Do i lack patience?
Or Next to someone more fun and less dramatic?

How long would you guys tolerate that stuff?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd slowly remove my strengths which in turn removes my protection towards her once an LTR has continously failed to amuse me.

She will branch out by herself once she realised that i won't budge despite her numerous drama's to keep me.

So the key to all my relationships is: Amusement.

But you need to keep in mind that all women will be dramatic, some more and some less, it's either you view it as amusing or it becomes annoying once that same drama keeps repeating.
 

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I'd slowly remove my strengths which in turn removes my protection towards her once an LTR has continously failed to amuse me.

She will branch out by herself once she realised that i won't budge despite her numerous drama's to keep me.

So the key to all my relationships is: Amusement.

But you need to keep in mind that all women will be dramatic, some more and some less, it's either you view it as amusing or it becomes annoying once that same drama keeps repeating.
Women not craving drama lolllll


I got to say i got no patience at all for it the amusement part goes away very fast.
And i know i got to tolerate it a little bit, but such a pain the ass
 

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When she acts up a simple “BISH SHUT THE FK UP” does wonders. Trust me on this lol. She will be wet
 

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When she acts up a simple “BISH SHUT THE FK UP” does wonders. Trust me on this lol. She will be wet
Ahh ill be a bit more polite and go with" hey babe you talk to much put this in your mouth !!!"



And after "dont spill a drop !!!"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Knock it off" are the words you want. If she doesn't listen, next her. Ain't no one got time for constant moaning.
 

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When you find a woman that isn’t dramatic and all sensitive about everything please let us know. That would be most likely I do they got a sex transformation!
 

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NEXT!!!!
Dont want to waste anymore time putting down fires.
Idgaf if i did something wrong or not.


Sometime i think that my diplomatic and compromising side should seriously be repress
 
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