"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey just wanted some tought on this.


I find that sometime its far from black and white what the best course of action is.

I am always willing to listen to the women im dating perspective when a issue come up, sometime they make a very good point.
And i understand them, however it make it harder for me to decide to NEXT or not.
Ridiculous non sense its a easy decision.

Those damm continuous talk about those issue are getting on my nerve.
Do i lack patience?
Or Next to someone more fun and less dramatic?

How long would you guys tolerate that stuff?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd slowly remove my strengths which in turn removes my protection towards her once an LTR has continously failed to amuse me.

She will branch out by herself once she realised that i won't budge despite her numerous drama's to keep me.

So the key to all my relationships is: Amusement.

But you need to keep in mind that all women will be dramatic, some more and some less, it's either you view it as amusing or it becomes annoying once that same drama keeps repeating.
 

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I'd slowly remove my strengths which in turn removes my protection towards her once an LTR has continously failed to amuse me.

She will branch out by herself once she realised that i won't budge despite her numerous drama's to keep me.

So the key to all my relationships is: Amusement.

But you need to keep in mind that all women will be dramatic, some more and some less, it's either you view it as amusing or it becomes annoying once that same drama keeps repeating.
Women not craving drama lolllll


I got to say i got no patience at all for it the amusement part goes away very fast.
And i know i got to tolerate it a little bit, but such a pain the ass
 

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When she acts up a simple “BISH SHUT THE FK UP” does wonders. Trust me on this lol. She will be wet
 

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When she acts up a simple “BISH SHUT THE FK UP” does wonders. Trust me on this lol. She will be wet
Ahh ill be a bit more polite and go with" hey babe you talk to much put this in your mouth !!!"



And after "dont spill a drop !!!"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Knock it off" are the words you want. If she doesn't listen, next her. Ain't no one got time for constant moaning.
 

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When you find a woman that isn’t dramatic and all sensitive about everything please let us know. That would be most likely I do they got a sex transformation!
 

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NEXT!!!!
Dont want to waste anymore time putting down fires.
Idgaf if i did something wrong or not.


Sometime i think that my diplomatic and compromising side should seriously be repress
 
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