“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

When is it ok to forgive?

O

O_johnson

New Member
Joined
Jun 12, 2004
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
My wife has been cheating on me, not because she's a tramp but because of the way I've treated her over the years and also my being unfaithful with various women throughout our marriage. But she always gave me another chance. Should I give her a chance? There is alot of issues that we need to address and work on but is it possible to trust somebody again after going something like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

N

NewMan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2003
Messages
2,406
Reaction score
16
Location
Los Angeles
What good for the goose is good for the gander.

You've got a huge situation here - and I think only you can figure that out.

There was a tip I read in the bible that said - sometimes it's just better to look past someone's transgretion.

That all depends on you though.
 
D

Dirtheart

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2004
Messages
952
Reaction score
1
Age
49
Location
UK
If you cheated on her maybe she just needed to do the same to feel even. But it does show that she didn't forgive you. I don't think you can blame her for that. No one wants to feel like the doormat in a relationship.

I think you owe her the chance this time, but there are still some mutual trust issues that could take a lot of work to resolve...or they could make you both work harder and strengthen your relationship.
 
M

maranathaman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2000
Messages
1,392
Reaction score
17
Location
LosAngeles, Ca. USA!
If you wanna save your marraige...

Seek marital counciling together.
If you are-not willing to put-in the effort,
then you might as well get divorced.
 
M

MrBond007

Banned
Joined
Aug 28, 2003
Messages
482
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada,Quebec
The only time you should forgive someone is when they were punished appropriately.

A man asked Jesus( its a translation from something I remember):

-My brother keeps doing me wrong.
-Well then get even and forgive him.
-What if he wrongs me again and again?
-Get even for each wrongs and forgive him each times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

P

princelydeeds

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2003
Messages
644
Reaction score
40
Location
Pittsburgh, Pa
You were wrong and maybe she did need to get you back. But when will she be done getting you back? Then how will you know when shes done getting you back? After she gets you back will you ever be able to forgive her for getting you back? Will you get her back for getting you back?

IMHO, It's over let her go, walk away. This situation will only get uglier. It sounds like she won't ever be able to truly forgive you and so now the game of hurting each other has begun. When a woman has truly let you go in her heart, I don't believe you can ever get her back. Walk away while you still have your dignity.
 
M

MrBond007

Banned
Joined
Aug 28, 2003
Messages
482
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada,Quebec
You know you shoudnt take a chance with her anyway. You know the sayin`: Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top