“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DiskJockey

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If to girls are having a rub dance then they 1 moves her but really close to you and the other stands back with a smile do you recommend grabbing her hips?
probbly rub my chest on her but Im way to tall.

Respect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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*sigh* ... I regret even reading this post.

YES, GRAB HER! Dominate her existance with your masculinity, be the man.

However, analysing those kinds of situations: it all depends on the intention of her friend.
  • She likes you, but instead pushes her friend to you
  • She notices her friend likes you, and helps her a bit
  • She's messing with her friend and pushes her over just to annoy her
My experience is that you should usually assume it's either a or b. No matter which of those situations, just start dancing with the girl.

If you don't know how to dance, then here's three elements I usually to involve into my dancing:
  • Show attitude. don't dance leaning forward but lean backwards a bit and relax your body as much as you can. Raise your head and smile.
  • Take control of the situation. You take action and lead her moves in a subtle and pleasant way. Spin her around, push her backwards while holding her back. Just show her some nice moves.
  • Synchronize with the girl. Move at the same pace and with the same beats as she's dancing to (for some reason most girls don't dance to the rhythm of the music).
 

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AAA. You don't know what it means, read the red post in the sig.

That said, I-am-someone nailed the rest of it. Take control. If you don't touch her, or get her close to you, she ain't coming home.
 

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Thanks guys, Im the best dancer in the club, & I got backup from male friends to. To deal with any bouners / boyfriends
Next time Ill go for it!
 

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I guess my whole problem comes down to wussy, dont be a wussy, problem is I weght 100kg (allot and have a big gut)
gotta get rid of my huge gut, I have high standards.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just start grinding on(if they are black/hispanic) or whisperning to girls that stare at me.

The rest I just dance in front of them or give them a nod if they don't notice me.Same thing women do I suppose.

The girls that diss me I pretty much diss back when they bump into me again and try to talk.

I've had girls even say "oh I couldn't see you,let's dance".

I was like "Hell no,...**** outta here...you stink."

(lol)..

I hate especially when girls look at you for the whole night but they won't come up and grind on you but you finally dance your way to her area she's mad and refuses to dance then or they start dancing with the meanest looking guy possible right next to you...

I hate that,I just feel used and insulted & it's really immature..
 

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wow man that was a come one clearly missed...when a chick comes up on me with that kind of scenario...i do the following...

A.look down @ her ass
B. Pull her in by her waist to my D*ck region
C. Proceed to dry humpin

it'z not hard...

this **** is child's play man...i was about to just flame you on how weak the thread was but then i remember there are some guys who really need help...but you'll get there...no need to be scared...she 10 times more scared than u....she's the one who made the 1st move...
 
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