“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DiskJockey

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If to girls are having a rub dance then they 1 moves her but really close to you and the other stands back with a smile do you recommend grabbing her hips?
probbly rub my chest on her but Im way to tall.

Respect.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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*sigh* ... I regret even reading this post.

YES, GRAB HER! Dominate her existance with your masculinity, be the man.

However, analysing those kinds of situations: it all depends on the intention of her friend.
  • She likes you, but instead pushes her friend to you
  • She notices her friend likes you, and helps her a bit
  • She's messing with her friend and pushes her over just to annoy her
My experience is that you should usually assume it's either a or b. No matter which of those situations, just start dancing with the girl.

If you don't know how to dance, then here's three elements I usually to involve into my dancing:
  • Show attitude. don't dance leaning forward but lean backwards a bit and relax your body as much as you can. Raise your head and smile.
  • Take control of the situation. You take action and lead her moves in a subtle and pleasant way. Spin her around, push her backwards while holding her back. Just show her some nice moves.
  • Synchronize with the girl. Move at the same pace and with the same beats as she's dancing to (for some reason most girls don't dance to the rhythm of the music).
 

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AAA. You don't know what it means, read the red post in the sig.

That said, I-am-someone nailed the rest of it. Take control. If you don't touch her, or get her close to you, she ain't coming home.
 

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Thanks guys, Im the best dancer in the club, & I got backup from male friends to. To deal with any bouners / boyfriends
Next time Ill go for it!
 

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I guess my whole problem comes down to wussy, dont be a wussy, problem is I weght 100kg (allot and have a big gut)
gotta get rid of my huge gut, I have high standards.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just start grinding on(if they are black/hispanic) or whisperning to girls that stare at me.

The rest I just dance in front of them or give them a nod if they don't notice me.Same thing women do I suppose.

The girls that diss me I pretty much diss back when they bump into me again and try to talk.

I've had girls even say "oh I couldn't see you,let's dance".

I was like "Hell no,...**** outta here...you stink."

(lol)..

I hate especially when girls look at you for the whole night but they won't come up and grind on you but you finally dance your way to her area she's mad and refuses to dance then or they start dancing with the meanest looking guy possible right next to you...

I hate that,I just feel used and insulted & it's really immature..
 

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wow man that was a come one clearly missed...when a chick comes up on me with that kind of scenario...i do the following...

A.look down @ her ass
B. Pull her in by her waist to my D*ck region
C. Proceed to dry humpin

it'z not hard...

this **** is child's play man...i was about to just flame you on how weak the thread was but then i remember there are some guys who really need help...but you'll get there...no need to be scared...she 10 times more scared than u....she's the one who made the 1st move...
 
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