*sigh* ... I regret even reading this post.
YES, GRAB HER! Dominate her existance with your masculinity, be the
man.
However, analysing those kinds of situations: it all depends on the intention of her friend.
- She likes you, but instead pushes her friend to you
- She notices her friend likes you, and helps her a bit
- She's messing with her friend and pushes her over just to annoy her
My experience is that you should usually assume it's either a or b. No matter which of those situations, just start dancing with the girl.
If you don't know how to dance, then here's three elements I usually to involve into my dancing:
- Show attitude. don't dance leaning forward but lean backwards a bit and relax your body as much as you can. Raise your head and smile.
- Take control of the situation. You take action and lead her moves in a subtle and pleasant way. Spin her around, push her backwards while holding her back. Just show her some nice moves.
- Synchronize with the girl. Move at the same pace and with the same beats as she's dancing to (for some reason most girls don't dance to the rhythm of the music).