"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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When is it creepy to still be hooking up with 18 and 19 year olds?

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I work at a music venue/bar so we have shows that bring in people of all ages, not just people over 21. I've found that this last year I've been attracting a lot of girls that are 18, 19, and 20.. I feel weird about it because I'm 28 but not so weird that I've let it stop me from doing it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I work at a music venue/bar so we have shows that bring in people of all ages, not just people over 21. I've found that this last year I've been attracting a lot of girls that are 18, 19, and 20.. I feel weird about it because I'm 28 but not so weird that I've let it stop me from doing it.
I would bang. But didnt you notice they are usually shallow as hell?
 

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It's never creepy.

It's only "creepy" to mostly older women who are slowly becoming invisible and hate seeing younger girls get all the attention.
 

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If you’re in your 20s, you’re fine. Once you get to your mid thirties, then it gets a bit weird to be sleeping with teens but ya know
 

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When you can only attract the ones with severe daddy issues or gold digging tendencies
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75

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Nothing creept about it but they have nothing to offer other than their pvssy...
 

Masculinity

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I work at a music venue/bar so we have shows that bring in people of all ages, not just people over 21. I've found that this last year I've been attracting a lot of girls that are 18, 19, and 20.. I feel weird about it because I'm 28 but not so weird that I've let it stop me from doing it.
We get older but women 18 and over, including college girls, stay the same age; there are always younger women. Don't let societal B.S. ashame you. If people don't like you, screw them.

You do you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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RangerMIke

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I date women half my age... it's not creepy. Don't let chicks who are about to, or have already, hit the wall, and their white knight social Conservative jack@ss allies, dictate what you do.

Having said that, have fun but don't get into relationships with chicks WAY younger than you, it just causes too much fvcking drama and the juice is not worth the squeeze. You will have trouble with her family, YOUR family, and if you are like me and have teenage daughters, if you have a serious girlfriend in her early 20s or less, you will be subjecting them to serious emotional BS from friends and family.
 

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I had no idea that I need anything from women other than this ...
You say you are mature but that response tells the truth.
 

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When going out with woman I follow this particular set of formula;

1/2 × (your age) + 7 = .........or/and younger.

My reasoning, woman must have an equal or lower EQ then you so that you both can have fun and she being able to respect you.

An example, say u r a 30 yrs old male then your ideal woman should be;

30 X 0.5 + 7 = 22 years old or younger
 

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My reasoning, woman must have an equal or lower EQ then you so that you both can have fun and she being able to respect you.
Whats an EQ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ

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You say you are mature but that response tells the truth.
How it is immature to say that the only thing I actually need from women is sexual intimacy, and anything that naturally follows (i.e., mothering for my children)?
 

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If you listen to the media it depends on how good looking you are.

Henry Cavill (mid 30s) was dating a 19y/o and the media were all "aww what a cute couple!"

But if you are an unattractive 35 year old with a 19 y/o then its creepy.

Ewan mcgregor is getting heat at the moment because he got rid of his haggard missus for the much better and younger mary elizabeth-winstead. Usually itd be fine but the old hag is playing the victim so the journos are ****ting on Ewan. Doubt he cares.
 
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If you listen to the media it depends on how good looking you are.

Henry Cavill (mid 30s) was dating a 19y/o and the media were all "aww what a cute couple!"

But if you are an unattractive 35 year old with a 19 y/o then its creepy.

Ewan mcgregor is getting heat at the moment because he got rid of his haggard missus for the much better and younger mary elizabeth-winstead. Usually itd be fine but the old hag is playing the victim so the journos are ****ting on Ewan. Doubt he cares.
We don't really know happened in their marriage. The media is making it look like he dumped a good wife and mother of his children to chase some younger girl because that is what will upset people and sell news but they could of had issues before who knows.

What we do know is that his ex wife will be very ok financially and in about a year we will see her hit the beach with a new face, body and guy.

He's a great actor regardless.
 

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Why is it that we never hear about "creepy" middle aged women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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