"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When in doubt what to do, remind yourself of this picture

DreamAgain

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Just a public service announcement...the moment you show weakness and desperation to an attractive women is when her attraction will plummet. It will be very hard to recover, so do not do it.

She does not find it endearing, cute, anything like that, don't listen to what she says.

If you feel her drifting, do not chase. Continue to be witty and fun but do not come off as desperate.

Think of this guy before you feel you might be making a blunder in the game.

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wifehunter

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The mission... It will always keep you strong, and not needy!!!

Focus on that!!!
 
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Hand in pocket, sign of insecurity.

And no he looks badass. It's just that I've read so much stuff, too much. Every single thing I analyze and it's just too much.

In a sense I'm happy I discovered this site, in another sense not. I know much more, but want to apply it all that it has the complete opposite effect.
 
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Last night I went out with a girl. Didn't use kino, didn't even make it seem like I was interested in her. After the date she blew up my phone and kept thanking me for the date.

It was a girl I met online and I wasn't attracted to her. HB 4 at best. I felt in control and there was no way I could mess up cause I didn't care about outcome.

If I can translate this attitude to hot women I would be unstoppable. I still get nervous around them but that dries up vag really quick.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scars

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SayWhat said:
Hand in pocket, sign of insecurity.

And no he looks badass. It's just that I've read so much stuff, too much. Every single thing I analyze and it's just too much.

In a sense I'm happy I discovered this site, in another sense not. I know much more, but want to apply it all that it has the complete opposite effect.
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You are way over analyzing bro. Look at his stature, his posture, the way he stands, the gaze in his eyes. It is a reflection of confidence. Could give a **** about his hand in his pocket.
 
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BlueAlpha1

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A hand in a pocket is not a sign of insecurity.

God, this "body language" stuff goes way too far sometimes.
 
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