"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when i started to use this advice

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Since I started reading the articles and the bible. My interactions with girls were just like urs except I didn't have to ask the forum, what's going on? Why is she not giving it up?

If u do ur job, escalate, tease, switch it up, get sexy, SELL THE DREAM then she will be yours or at least she will tell u no because of a real reason. Like a husband

All I see is examples of texts, online messages. Where in the articles does it say, text her this or message her that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nothing ever works 100%

Use what helps your game in a personalized manner and stop trying to trick women into bed. They can feel your motives if you try too hard. Be yourself and adjust your "game" with some of the advice here but no set of words or actions will get you laid every time because every woman is different. Some have morals some don't. Some want romance some don't. Some want LTR some don't. Your woman will give you clues and cues on how you should approach her. Just be with her and have fun. The rest will fall into place when its time.

So stop TRYING so hard and acting desperate to get laid and you likely will.

Have you read "kill your desperation" by pook? If not. Soak it in.

Epi
 

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As PlayHer Man said it best, women who are actually interested will make it easy for you.
 

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A very valid point. I'm guilty of this too. In fact, whenever I have messed things up with a girl or a girlfriend, it's because I turned my back on the great principles I learned here. I thought I knew better, thought I would try it my way because "this girl is different" or "my situation is different".

The most regretable thing about my last relationship is that if I'd stuck with what I learned on this forum many years ago, it would never have fallen apart. I'm certain of that.

I'm not saying you should just blindly accept the advice of random people on this forum, but if 20 people are telling you the same thing, you've read it in the Bible and in other threads, then why would you go and do the opposite?
 

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Epimanes said:
Nothing ever works 100%

Use what helps your game in a personalized manner and stop trying to trick women into bed. They can feel your motives if you try too hard. Be yourself and adjust your "game" with some of the advice here but no set of words or actions will get you laid every time because every woman is different. Some have morals some don't. Some want romance some don't. Some want LTR some don't. Your woman will give you clues and cues on how you should approach her. Just be with her and have fun. The rest will fall into place when its time.

So stop TRYING so hard and acting desperate to get laid and you likely will.

Have you read "kill your desperation" by pook? If not. Soak it in.

Epi
I wish every noobie on the site could read this
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kill your desperation is an excellent thread. :up:
 
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