"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when i started to use this advice

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Since I started reading the articles and the bible. My interactions with girls were just like urs except I didn't have to ask the forum, what's going on? Why is she not giving it up?

If u do ur job, escalate, tease, switch it up, get sexy, SELL THE DREAM then she will be yours or at least she will tell u no because of a real reason. Like a husband

All I see is examples of texts, online messages. Where in the articles does it say, text her this or message her that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nothing ever works 100%

Use what helps your game in a personalized manner and stop trying to trick women into bed. They can feel your motives if you try too hard. Be yourself and adjust your "game" with some of the advice here but no set of words or actions will get you laid every time because every woman is different. Some have morals some don't. Some want romance some don't. Some want LTR some don't. Your woman will give you clues and cues on how you should approach her. Just be with her and have fun. The rest will fall into place when its time.

So stop TRYING so hard and acting desperate to get laid and you likely will.

Have you read "kill your desperation" by pook? If not. Soak it in.

Epi
 

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As PlayHer Man said it best, women who are actually interested will make it easy for you.
 

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A very valid point. I'm guilty of this too. In fact, whenever I have messed things up with a girl or a girlfriend, it's because I turned my back on the great principles I learned here. I thought I knew better, thought I would try it my way because "this girl is different" or "my situation is different".

The most regretable thing about my last relationship is that if I'd stuck with what I learned on this forum many years ago, it would never have fallen apart. I'm certain of that.

I'm not saying you should just blindly accept the advice of random people on this forum, but if 20 people are telling you the same thing, you've read it in the Bible and in other threads, then why would you go and do the opposite?
 

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Epimanes said:
Nothing ever works 100%

Use what helps your game in a personalized manner and stop trying to trick women into bed. They can feel your motives if you try too hard. Be yourself and adjust your "game" with some of the advice here but no set of words or actions will get you laid every time because every woman is different. Some have morals some don't. Some want romance some don't. Some want LTR some don't. Your woman will give you clues and cues on how you should approach her. Just be with her and have fun. The rest will fall into place when its time.

So stop TRYING so hard and acting desperate to get laid and you likely will.

Have you read "kill your desperation" by pook? If not. Soak it in.

Epi
I wish every noobie on the site could read this
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

adam225

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Kill your desperation is an excellent thread. :up:
 
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