I really been going a little down hill lately after this break up. I really need to get back in gear. I was doing stronglifts 5x5. My job took a downward spiral an I stopped I was also on a very strict diet turkey bacon low fat but kind of gave it up when I met this girl. So I think I will visit this site everyday an get my career back on track and work out at least 4 times a week also I need some education so I will try some school again reading every week and lastly I need good fvuckin karma so I might spend weekends volunteering I hope to change to something better these kids can see my 3rd child is coming anymore ideas for self improvement I welcome thanks
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
when i say self improvement...
- Thread starter bigwuz
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backseatjuan
Banned
Where you work?
backseatjuan
Banned
Can you open up your own business and work for your self?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.