When I kiss this girl, I don't feel anything :(

[negativefcf]

I recently kissed my first girl. However, when I kissed her, I didn't feel anything. I didn't enjoy the physical touching of our lips. The taste was so bland.... It was like I was kissing my own hand at times.

I am new to this "dating" thing. I was wondering is this normal???? I am so confused right now.

 

[School]

I felt kind of like that with my first kiss. It took a couple of years to realize the true meaning and develop that feeling behind it. Give it time..

 

[spider_007]

i can relate, i'll start feeling better and better as you get used to it. But i'll never feel as good for you as it does for her

 

[Muppet]

Do you really like the girl? Sometimes just kissing a random girl can be boring, but when you really care about them and they mean something to you a kiss is a lot more then just a sexual act.

Unless you are kissing the other lips

 

[Sexual]

Maybe it's just so much anxiety that it makes it unenjoyable. Relax, even if you get critisized you'll learn from your mistakes.

Either that or you're gay. Try it a few more times and use a breathmint for taste..... good one Muppet

Try this-
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16921

 

[undesputable]

you got to get some emotional meaning behind it. I agree kissing would be boring if all it only was a physical act.

 

[negativefcf]

No I had some emotional feelings towards her. I just don't know. I was pretty relaxed, but the taste and overall sensation was bland. i don't know if it's me or not.

 

[School]

You are prolly still young. Relax and chill out. Don't expect fireworks with the first one. You have plenty of time to enjoy.

 

[Barbillus]

In my experience, the only time I feel something when I kiss a girl is if I truly do "like" her. Then you get that feeling when you kiss her.

However, every other time it feels like nothing. I guess it just depends on the girl. Keep kissing/hooking up with her so when you find that girl that is LTR material you will be more experienced.

Good luck.

 

[frivolousz21]

H O M O SEXUAL~

JK

 

[ChenCristos]

wow...kissing is fun..errrrrrrrrr

 

[affliction]

I'm not a big fan of kissing either, at least not the actual sensation from the lips. I do enjoy rubbing some ass or just feeling her body close to me while I'm kissing, though.

If the kissing isn't doing it for you, grab her hips, squeeze her waste, slap her ass, etc. Make it fun.

 

[California Love]

If it was no tongue, ur not suppsed to feel anything.

 

[Mack Bishop]

give the black kiss

 

[negativefcf]

Originally posted by Mack Bishop
give the black kiss

what?

 

[Mack Bishop]

el beso negro

 

[flyinshark]

Originally posted by Mack Bishop
el beso negro

what?

 

[flyinshark]

le baiser noir

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what?


Ok, what's this black kiss thing? We could translate it into all the languages and it still wont tell you what exactly it is.

 

[Jake-inator]

If the taste is bland... try some flavored gum.

Otherwise i think you're either really not into this girl... or you might have some sexual issues you need to resolve.

Here's a fool proof method of finding out your sexual preference:

Do you feel attracted to women in general?
a. yes
b. no

Are you attracted to some other girls more than your current GF?
a. yes
b. no

Who gives you a hard on?
a. a hot girl in a thong.
b. a saucy frenchman in speedos.

If you anwsered a to all the above questions you are straight, and need to find a hotter girl. B... well *cough* homosexual *cough*

If i don't really like a girl, then i won't feel anything either.
Try it with some other girls and see if you feel something... Otherwise i think it's time to step out of the closet.

Originally posted by spider_007
I can relate, i'll start feeling better and better as you get used to it. But i'll never feel as good for you as it does for her

huh?? what are you guys talking about... it feels just as good.

 

[flyinshark]

I also think it feels better for girls. From what i've been told, it makes them feel like floating, and they get those butterflies and that kinda little shiver that traverses their bodies without them having any control over it. Not to mention they get sexually aroused and i guess much more is happening too...all during one good kiss.

Now, any of you guys ever felt all of the above (and perhaps more) during one good kiss? I think it's rare that a guy feels all that stuff from a kiss.