"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When i girl doesnt wanna go down on you after she has in the past

bfl

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Im in this situation right now.

It took me a while to talk my girl into going down on me, but she finally did after a while like a few weeks, so its been like that for a few months but now she saying that she doesnt wanna do it no more cause she feels and thinks that it aint right, and its not something that a decent girl would do, also she says that "its so choking" :)D ) and that its not decent for a girl to do.

Now we talk about it took me a whole lot of philosophy to get in her mind that it aint wrong to do it cause im her boyfriend, and she decided that she is gonna do it but not all the time, "once in a while".

Now what can i say to her to let her know that there is nothing wrong with it and that it wont make her look like a "*****" ?

I tried telling her that we are in a relationship and we are bf and gf so there is nothing wrong with it, but it still wont sink in her mind, she keeps saying "why do you need it" and "you dont need it"
Now i also go down on her when she goes down on me, but she says that although she likes it , its not something that she wants or needs in sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CharmaLeo

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Give her a choice, either go down or you use her back door. Tell us the results.
 

alphawolfx

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keep persisting...

my ex didn't like giving *******s when i met her

but within about a year or two of me persisitng (okay, how about just the head... okay can you use your tongue) she started loving it so much she would OFFER....

she's like "hey want a *******?" and she got really good
then when i learned how to make her *** really fast through eating her out, she began to do that s.hit ALL THE TIME... seriously, i had like a ******* a day, and sex about twice a week
 

bfl

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yeah hopefully this turns out to be the same.

and dam broke up after 2 yrs+ dam... that should had hurted
 

dietzcoi

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Some just don't like to do it, if so you will have to decide if you want to stay with her.

Sounds like she has some moral/societal issues with it, if she thinks decent women don't do it.

DIetzcoi
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heheh,..what, did you get married already?

:D
 
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