"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When i girl doesnt wanna go down on you after she has in the past

bfl

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Im in this situation right now.

It took me a while to talk my girl into going down on me, but she finally did after a while like a few weeks, so its been like that for a few months but now she saying that she doesnt wanna do it no more cause she feels and thinks that it aint right, and its not something that a decent girl would do, also she says that "its so choking" :)D ) and that its not decent for a girl to do.

Now we talk about it took me a whole lot of philosophy to get in her mind that it aint wrong to do it cause im her boyfriend, and she decided that she is gonna do it but not all the time, "once in a while".

Now what can i say to her to let her know that there is nothing wrong with it and that it wont make her look like a "*****" ?

I tried telling her that we are in a relationship and we are bf and gf so there is nothing wrong with it, but it still wont sink in her mind, she keeps saying "why do you need it" and "you dont need it"
Now i also go down on her when she goes down on me, but she says that although she likes it , its not something that she wants or needs in sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CharmaLeo

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Give her a choice, either go down or you use her back door. Tell us the results.
 

alphawolfx

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keep persisting...

my ex didn't like giving *******s when i met her

but within about a year or two of me persisitng (okay, how about just the head... okay can you use your tongue) she started loving it so much she would OFFER....

she's like "hey want a *******?" and she got really good
then when i learned how to make her *** really fast through eating her out, she began to do that s.hit ALL THE TIME... seriously, i had like a ******* a day, and sex about twice a week
 

bfl

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yeah hopefully this turns out to be the same.

and dam broke up after 2 yrs+ dam... that should had hurted
 

dietzcoi

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Some just don't like to do it, if so you will have to decide if you want to stay with her.

Sounds like she has some moral/societal issues with it, if she thinks decent women don't do it.

DIetzcoi
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heheh,..what, did you get married already?

:D
 
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