"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hi, im new here...

anyway, i need some advice. im pretty good at starting up good conversations with pretty much anyone, but then i just stop. i run out of stuff to say, and then i feel as if im just giving off pure "boring!". so what do you guys do you minimise this. or am i just a boring idiot? lol.

not to mention this is really a problem on aim and in phone conversations... but i try to keep talking on the phone to a minimum (probably becasue of this).

i really appriciate any answers/ideas/help.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I really like teasing so i look at the targets cloths or stuff and make a cool joke about it, the target goes like "you are so mean" and i say "You are much more cute when you are angry" and hug her. works like magic.
 
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sometimes silence is good, but you need to make sure you give off the aura that you are comfortable with the silence, you are not thinking about what to say next, so that it is up to HER to spark something.

it works great!

and of course, if the other person doesn't say something after the silence then they probably are not interested, or something. There is no point continueing conversations with people on their bad days or if they are uninterested.
 
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The best thing is to pick up on what they're saying and transform it into a slight payout.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Infraction said:
I really like teasing so i look at the targets cloths or stuff and make a cool joke about it, the target goes like "you are so mean" and i say "You are much more cute when you are angry" and hug her. works like magic.
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Damnit I needed this line last week. My fav 6 has very obvious buttons I press all the time. She instantly goes into play fighting and it's hilarious. My kino with her is already at the high level even though she's taken. Man, that would have been perfect though. Ah well, to the future!!
 
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Just because she's taken doesn't mean she might not go with you ;) Try pushing it a little....
 
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