Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When I’m a 10 and she is a 7

The Mayor

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Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gangster Of Love

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The Mayor said:
Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
Thread useless without pictures.

Tune down your "gamming" and "neggings", as it is, she might think she's not in your league, as her self-image is not that healthy, so you just come and re-emphasize it. Remember, a lot of women, need to feel like they are in control, so they rather deal with somebody who is less intimidating.

What do you want with this 7? What are you looking for? Have you escalated physically?
 

ego

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I suggest you head for the next stage of seduction and stop rating yourself, AND others. It won't make any difference in the long run, and what we we should focus about in life is what really matters.

Sorry if that made me sound like an idi*t but seriously, it's the best way to go.
 
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