"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I’m a 10 and she is a 7

The Mayor

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Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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The Mayor said:
Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
Thread useless without pictures.

Tune down your "gamming" and "neggings", as it is, she might think she's not in your league, as her self-image is not that healthy, so you just come and re-emphasize it. Remember, a lot of women, need to feel like they are in control, so they rather deal with somebody who is less intimidating.

What do you want with this 7? What are you looking for? Have you escalated physically?
 

ego

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I suggest you head for the next stage of seduction and stop rating yourself, AND others. It won't make any difference in the long run, and what we we should focus about in life is what really matters.

Sorry if that made me sound like an idi*t but seriously, it's the best way to go.
 
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