"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When I’m a 10 and she is a 7

The Mayor

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Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gangster Of Love

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The Mayor said:
Am I a 10? Well I don’t know.
Do I dress like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I talk like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I present myself like a 10? Yes I do.
Do I get late? No I don’t, I have an extreme case of AA(approach anxiety), but I’m working on that.
So, in my own eyes and yours, the reader, I’m not a 10.
But in the eyes of the 7 I’m gaming and negging, I am a 10 and I’m intimidating her.

How do I avoid that?
The problem is that my game is not tight enough to start working 9’s or 10’s.

Tnx
The Mayor
Thread useless without pictures.

Tune down your "gamming" and "neggings", as it is, she might think she's not in your league, as her self-image is not that healthy, so you just come and re-emphasize it. Remember, a lot of women, need to feel like they are in control, so they rather deal with somebody who is less intimidating.

What do you want with this 7? What are you looking for? Have you escalated physically?
 

ego

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I suggest you head for the next stage of seduction and stop rating yourself, AND others. It won't make any difference in the long run, and what we we should focus about in life is what really matters.

Sorry if that made me sound like an idi*t but seriously, it's the best way to go.
 
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