"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When her friend pulls her away

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Had this happen on three occasions in a night. I know befriend the friend, but if i start dancing with a chick and shes into me but her friend pulls her away, how can I pull this off keep dancing or whatever with the chick whos into me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awfully not so much you can do, the only useful thing that will makes you feel better is ruin the c0ckblocker night as much as she ruined yours.

Tell to her friend (with a relaxed voice not an angry one) that her friend and you were having a good time and there was no reason to interrupt and if that she is alone and not good enough to get a man herself is not your fault.

Avoid the angry behaviour cause you will be perceived as a hurted pride man seeking revenge, while if you talk slowly and relaxed the b1tch will really think you're right.

The only thing that really hurts a girl is her ego being struck, you'll do a favor to other fellas cause in future she will think twice before c0ckblocking someone.
The reason c0ckblock happen so often is because the c0ckblocker gets paid for doing so, she saves her ego from being the only girl in the group to remain alone and hurt guys who "dared" to ignore her.

No surprise the c0ckblokers are always the fat/old/ugly friends.
 
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Strelok said:
Awfully not so much you can do, the only useful thing that will makes you feel better is ruin the c0ckblocker night as much as she ruined yours.

Tell to her friend (with a relaxed voice not an angry one) that her friend and you were having a good time and there was no reason to interrupt and if that she is alone and not good enough to get a man herself is not your fault.

Avoid the angry behaviour cause you will be perceived as a hurted pride man seeking revenge, while if you talk slowly and relaxed the b1tch will really think you're right.

The only thing that really hurts a girl is her ego being struck, you'll do a favor to other fellas cause in future she will think twice before c0ckblocking someone.
The reason c0ckblock happen so often is because the c0ckblocker gets paid for doing so, she saves her ego from being the only girl in the group to remain alone and hurt guys who "dared" to ignore her.

No surprise the c0ckblokers are always the fat/old/ugly friends.
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Im going to try that next time. Thanks bro
 
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I usually flip the game and start hitting on the friend, even if she is not pretty I wil flirt. Most of that arm-pulling is due to jealousy, they dont want to see their girls hook up and leave them hanging. False hope is your friend in the field, hit em with the charm, disarm and isolate the first chance you get
 
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That's why it helps to bring a friend or two of your own to even the numbers.

If a girl is absolutely into you she will blow off her friends to get a piece. So keep her interested, but it wouldn't help to talk it up with her friends a bit too.

You could also consider it a test. Next time it happens try something like:

"Hey! Don't take her away, we were having a good time!"

But say it in a playful manner. If you haven't already broke the ice with her friends, this is how you do it. You can easily tell how she reacts to this if she's going to be a CB or not.

But for the most part, try and roll with at least one other friend who knows what he's doing. The type of friend where you could tell him "Hey man, I think I'm going up to so and so's room" and you can peace out and he won't even care, because he already has his own chick, or he understands the rules of the game.

-Scars
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Get a wingman.

I'm a wingman for most of my friends and I end up at times getting with all sorts of ugly, fat and disgusting women. Still they [my friends] give me man points and buy me beer/cigarettes in exchange, so it's a fair deal.
 
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