"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Had this happen on three occasions in a night. I know befriend the friend, but if i start dancing with a chick and shes into me but her friend pulls her away, how can I pull this off keep dancing or whatever with the chick whos into me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awfully not so much you can do, the only useful thing that will makes you feel better is ruin the c0ckblocker night as much as she ruined yours.

Tell to her friend (with a relaxed voice not an angry one) that her friend and you were having a good time and there was no reason to interrupt and if that she is alone and not good enough to get a man herself is not your fault.

Avoid the angry behaviour cause you will be perceived as a hurted pride man seeking revenge, while if you talk slowly and relaxed the b1tch will really think you're right.

The only thing that really hurts a girl is her ego being struck, you'll do a favor to other fellas cause in future she will think twice before c0ckblocking someone.
The reason c0ckblock happen so often is because the c0ckblocker gets paid for doing so, she saves her ego from being the only girl in the group to remain alone and hurt guys who "dared" to ignore her.

No surprise the c0ckblokers are always the fat/old/ugly friends.
 
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Strelok said:
Awfully not so much you can do, the only useful thing that will makes you feel better is ruin the c0ckblocker night as much as she ruined yours.

Tell to her friend (with a relaxed voice not an angry one) that her friend and you were having a good time and there was no reason to interrupt and if that she is alone and not good enough to get a man herself is not your fault.

Avoid the angry behaviour cause you will be perceived as a hurted pride man seeking revenge, while if you talk slowly and relaxed the b1tch will really think you're right.

The only thing that really hurts a girl is her ego being struck, you'll do a favor to other fellas cause in future she will think twice before c0ckblocking someone.
The reason c0ckblock happen so often is because the c0ckblocker gets paid for doing so, she saves her ego from being the only girl in the group to remain alone and hurt guys who "dared" to ignore her.

No surprise the c0ckblokers are always the fat/old/ugly friends.
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Im going to try that next time. Thanks bro
 
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I usually flip the game and start hitting on the friend, even if she is not pretty I wil flirt. Most of that arm-pulling is due to jealousy, they dont want to see their girls hook up and leave them hanging. False hope is your friend in the field, hit em with the charm, disarm and isolate the first chance you get
 
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That's why it helps to bring a friend or two of your own to even the numbers.

If a girl is absolutely into you she will blow off her friends to get a piece. So keep her interested, but it wouldn't help to talk it up with her friends a bit too.

You could also consider it a test. Next time it happens try something like:

"Hey! Don't take her away, we were having a good time!"

But say it in a playful manner. If you haven't already broke the ice with her friends, this is how you do it. You can easily tell how she reacts to this if she's going to be a CB or not.

But for the most part, try and roll with at least one other friend who knows what he's doing. The type of friend where you could tell him "Hey man, I think I'm going up to so and so's room" and you can peace out and he won't even care, because he already has his own chick, or he understands the rules of the game.

-Scars
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get a wingman.

I'm a wingman for most of my friends and I end up at times getting with all sorts of ugly, fat and disgusting women. Still they [my friends] give me man points and buy me beer/cigarettes in exchange, so it's a fair deal.
 
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