If you're not being passive aggressive you're definitely acting like a know it all who is also basically saying that I don't know jack sh-t about women. Your implication is that simply bc this chick's ex follows her on social media and likes her photos is an absolute good enough reason to abort any form of a LTR pursuit with her. Perhaps instead of you telling me i'm going to get my a$$ kicked in this and that I "have to learn somehow" you actually, you know, explain your thoughtsIt’s not passive or agressive in any way. I was very sincere. Very. Men don’t grow without experience.
You guys are trying to solve women. It’s already solved. They have a dualistic sexual biological strategy. You can’t remove it like an appendix or a wart. You can’t evolve a man enough for her to suddenly cause a mutation in her hardware programming and make them “love” you or anything beyond their children and family.
If you think it’s a bluff, then go with that. You have to learn somehow. Might as well be with this one.