mustfirstregister
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What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When hard work isn't paying off
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
JohnChops
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Funny, I lift more and get less.skinnyguy said:
Take a break.
Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tenacity
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Post some pics let's see how you look. If your looks are under a 5 you are going to have some issues. Looks include your face, hair, clothing style, how fit you are, your eyes, your smile and your smell (type of cologne you wear).mustfirstregister said:
Also how is your Personality and Money? Are they on point or are you struggling with both?
You want to be a 6 - 7 in Looks, 6 - 8 in Personality and 6 - 7 in Money. From there, THAT'S when you want to up your approaches because you will have great conversion rates.
Personality is about your conversation style, humor, the little c0cky/funny stuff, being sexual and turning her on while doing it, being able to have a good conversation, etc.
Money is based on your age group, being above average. I don't know how old you are, but if you are a Millennial like me, your Money is a 7 plus if you make over $50k a year without more than 1 kid. If you have 2 or 3 kids, you would need $100k a year.
Being a 3 or 4 all around and doing a lot of approaches, is like thinking you can sell a bad product by just making a lot of telephone calls.
mustfirstregister
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I think it's my approach and BL. I'll try again today. Will update u later.
zekko
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Sometimes when you work hard at something, there comes a time when you hit a plateau, and you aren't seeing results. These can be very frustrating times, and it can be hard to find the motivation to work through them. You could be talking about anything, from lifting to trying to lose weight, to getting girls, to learning to play the bassoon.
Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
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And what you are saying is your FACE could even be attractive to 70% of females out there, but if it is not a attractive face type for her in particular then there is nothing you can do....captain55 said:
Here goes the thing though. Sometimes with a supreme body or supreme power or money, they won't mind an "ugly" face. Just like a guy.
If she has a level 10 body, and a level 6 butter face and she dresses good and awesome energy, you may be able to overlook the face.
It all depends upon the person.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.