"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When hard work isn't paying off

mustfirstregister

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What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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Lift more. That's my secret. If I lift more I get more puss
 

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Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mustfirstregister said:
What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
Post some pics let's see how you look. If your looks are under a 5 you are going to have some issues. Looks include your face, hair, clothing style, how fit you are, your eyes, your smile and your smell (type of cologne you wear).

Also how is your Personality and Money? Are they on point or are you struggling with both?

You want to be a 6 - 7 in Looks, 6 - 8 in Personality and 6 - 7 in Money. From there, THAT'S when you want to up your approaches because you will have great conversion rates.

Personality is about your conversation style, humor, the little c0cky/funny stuff, being sexual and turning her on while doing it, being able to have a good conversation, etc.

Money is based on your age group, being above average. I don't know how old you are, but if you are a Millennial like me, your Money is a 7 plus if you make over $50k a year without more than 1 kid. If you have 2 or 3 kids, you would need $100k a year.

Being a 3 or 4 all around and doing a lot of approaches, is like thinking you can sell a bad product by just making a lot of telephone calls.
 

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Sometimes when you work hard at something, there comes a time when you hit a plateau, and you aren't seeing results. These can be very frustrating times, and it can be hard to find the motivation to work through them. You could be talking about anything, from lifting to trying to lose weight, to getting girls, to learning to play the bassoon.

Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
 

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Have you ever had days when you opened and closed well?

If so, the problem is in your inner game.

If not, increase your SMV; then try again.
 
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captain55 said:
Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
And what you are saying is your FACE could even be attractive to 70% of females out there, but if it is not a attractive face type for her in particular then there is nothing you can do....

Here goes the thing though. Sometimes with a supreme body or supreme power or money, they won't mind an "ugly" face. Just like a guy.

If she has a level 10 body, and a level 6 butter face and she dresses good and awesome energy, you may be able to overlook the face.

It all depends upon the person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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