“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mustfirstregister

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What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
 

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Lift more. That's my secret. If I lift more I get more puss
 

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Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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mustfirstregister said:
What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
Post some pics let's see how you look. If your looks are under a 5 you are going to have some issues. Looks include your face, hair, clothing style, how fit you are, your eyes, your smile and your smell (type of cologne you wear).

Also how is your Personality and Money? Are they on point or are you struggling with both?

You want to be a 6 - 7 in Looks, 6 - 8 in Personality and 6 - 7 in Money. From there, THAT'S when you want to up your approaches because you will have great conversion rates.

Personality is about your conversation style, humor, the little c0cky/funny stuff, being sexual and turning her on while doing it, being able to have a good conversation, etc.

Money is based on your age group, being above average. I don't know how old you are, but if you are a Millennial like me, your Money is a 7 plus if you make over $50k a year without more than 1 kid. If you have 2 or 3 kids, you would need $100k a year.

Being a 3 or 4 all around and doing a lot of approaches, is like thinking you can sell a bad product by just making a lot of telephone calls.
 

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Sometimes when you work hard at something, there comes a time when you hit a plateau, and you aren't seeing results. These can be very frustrating times, and it can be hard to find the motivation to work through them. You could be talking about anything, from lifting to trying to lose weight, to getting girls, to learning to play the bassoon.

Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
 

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Have you ever had days when you opened and closed well?

If so, the problem is in your inner game.

If not, increase your SMV; then try again.
 
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captain55 said:
Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
And what you are saying is your FACE could even be attractive to 70% of females out there, but if it is not a attractive face type for her in particular then there is nothing you can do....

Here goes the thing though. Sometimes with a supreme body or supreme power or money, they won't mind an "ugly" face. Just like a guy.

If she has a level 10 body, and a level 6 butter face and she dresses good and awesome energy, you may be able to overlook the face.

It all depends upon the person.
 
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