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What you do? Like I sarge four days a week. Do tons of sets. But lately hasn't been working.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When hard work isn't paying off
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
JohnChops
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Funny, I lift more and get less.skinnyguy said:
Take a break.
Ok, I dont think Ive ever ****ed a girl who didn't think I was good looking. Sure they would comment on my physique, but if a girl isnt attracted to your face there is nothing you can really do....doesnt matter if you have the body of kevin levrone. .working out to attract women is a waste of time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Post some pics let's see how you look. If your looks are under a 5 you are going to have some issues. Looks include your face, hair, clothing style, how fit you are, your eyes, your smile and your smell (type of cologne you wear).mustfirstregister said:
Also how is your Personality and Money? Are they on point or are you struggling with both?
You want to be a 6 - 7 in Looks, 6 - 8 in Personality and 6 - 7 in Money. From there, THAT'S when you want to up your approaches because you will have great conversion rates.
Personality is about your conversation style, humor, the little c0cky/funny stuff, being sexual and turning her on while doing it, being able to have a good conversation, etc.
Money is based on your age group, being above average. I don't know how old you are, but if you are a Millennial like me, your Money is a 7 plus if you make over $50k a year without more than 1 kid. If you have 2 or 3 kids, you would need $100k a year.
Being a 3 or 4 all around and doing a lot of approaches, is like thinking you can sell a bad product by just making a lot of telephone calls.
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I think it's my approach and BL. I'll try again today. Will update u later.
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Sometimes when you work hard at something, there comes a time when you hit a plateau, and you aren't seeing results. These can be very frustrating times, and it can be hard to find the motivation to work through them. You could be talking about anything, from lifting to trying to lose weight, to getting girls, to learning to play the bassoon.
Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
Of course, the truth is that no matter how hard you work at playing basketball, not everybody is going to be LeBron James. Sh!t, not everybody is even going to make the team.
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And what you are saying is your FACE could even be attractive to 70% of females out there, but if it is not a attractive face type for her in particular then there is nothing you can do....captain55 said:
Here goes the thing though. Sometimes with a supreme body or supreme power or money, they won't mind an "ugly" face. Just like a guy.
If she has a level 10 body, and a level 6 butter face and she dresses good and awesome energy, you may be able to overlook the face.
It all depends upon the person.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.