What do you guys interpret this to mean? Are they trying to show their worth to you or not even thinking you are a potential lay? A friend I ended up doing a while back said she always told me sex stories about herself to turn me on while we were at work. Do you believe this to be true in most situations?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When girls talk about thier sex lives in front of you
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I have had women tell me about their birth control status on first dates. Usually, they are mentioning how they are not on it. I dunno how they work it into the convo, 'cuz I sure never ask, but it happens. So, I take that to mean they are thinking about sex, and just letting me know in advance.
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They'll usually only talk about their sex lives if they're comfortable around you--which means your foot's in the door.
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I never had a girl tell me sex stories about her past. Unless, I asked them about it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In the door of the friend zone.MooseGod said:They'll usually only talk about their sex lives if they're comfortable around you--which means your foot's in the door.
Women shouldn't be too comfortable with you. They'll end up telling you a whole bunch of nonsense which you don't require.
Acceptable sex talk falls under, how she likes it done to her and what style she likes best. However once names are mentioned, then she isn't recalling the act of sex but the person she had sex with. Which then means she is still hung up about the other guy and you should next her before you both go shopping for her K-Y Jelly.
That's what I always thought too. This girl actually DID mention names though, so I assumed I have no chance with her, until she asked to come over and we did it. After she told me that she was trying to get me horny by telling me those stories. Is this girl just an exception to the rule?ZenGodMod said:In the door of the friend zone.
Women shouldn't be too comfortable with you. They'll end up telling you a whole bunch of nonsense which you don't require.
Acceptable sex talk falls under, how she likes it done to her and what style she likes best. However once names are mentioned, then she isn't recalling the act of sex but the person she had sex with. Which then means she is still hung up about the other guy and you should next her before you both go shopping for her K-Y Jelly.
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Usually means she like you and is very comfortable or she is just a big ho/slut an does not care...
If a girl is personally telling you about her sex life, it probably means that you are in the friends zone. If she mainly talking to her female friends about her sex life and you happen to be in the clique, then she might be trying to impress you, but you need to look for other IOIs.
Funny, this very topic just came up with me today.
Girl I've had sex with in the past e-mailed me today. We went back and forth on a few stupid things, then she tells me she's getting a brazilian wax.
I asked her to show me the end product and she said no. Then I told her to let me know when she dumps her boyfriend and she said maybe.
I think it's a combination of some level of attraction (only girls I've had sex with ever do this with me) and attention wh-ring.
All in all, doesn't mean much, but I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing.
Girl I've had sex with in the past e-mailed me today. We went back and forth on a few stupid things, then she tells me she's getting a brazilian wax.
I asked her to show me the end product and she said no. Then I told her to let me know when she dumps her boyfriend and she said maybe.
I think it's a combination of some level of attraction (only girls I've had sex with ever do this with me) and attention wh-ring.
All in all, doesn't mean much, but I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This is true. If SHE brings up the topic it´s because there´s a purpose there.MooseGod said:They'll usually only talk about their sex lives if they're comfortable around you--which means your foot's in the door.
There are no Rules! Rules would mean everything has a set outcome. There are only probabilities.SamMalone said:That's what I always thought too. This girl actually DID mention names though, so I assumed I have no chance with her, until she asked to come over and we did it. After she told me that she was trying to get me horny by telling me those stories. Is this girl just an exception to the rule?