"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When girls SNAP

sharpshooter

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I was really getting on my friend's (this chick) nerves in a serious way. Kept disputing EVERYTHING she was saying (about a certain subject) and it just escalated into this huge argument. Got to the point where I literally had her stumbling for words...well I guess that was the straw that broke the camel's back because she SNAPPED.

Went off on me about my looks OUT OF NOWHERE. Said she hated my "greaseball hair", my "nasty" looking eyes and mouth. Said I had non existent muscles (which is false, my muscles are huuuge and pumped :)) Followed it up by saying I was just nasty looking haha. She said all of this in a mean envious way. I just laughed it off. She's told me before how she loved my hair, eyes, muscles etc. The point is why would she react like that and say those things. Maybe because I come off as egotistical. She's mentioned this before in the past. Used to tell me she loved everything about me but I was too ****y and she hated that. By the way, i'm never talking to her again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sharpshooter

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got back from the gym, took a shower, ate


and stiiiiiiiiiiiiillllll no replies, haha
 

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Was the argument worth your time? I absolutely never try to change people's opinion or impose my own. I may express my view, or appeal to reason but not in an arrogant manner. When arguments start, any thread of communication is over, all you're working for is resentment and broken communication.
 

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Originally posted by sharpshooter
got back from the gym, took a shower, ate


and stiiiiiiiiiiiiillllll no replies, haha
Because this post is a waste of space and Allen's money. What do we care? Why do YOU care? Is this just a ego boost post to toot your own horn about how you have huge muscles and how a girl was showering you with compliments? How does this post matter? In any sense, shape or form?

Next time you hit that new thread button. Think about, am I contributing to this board or just making substanceless braggadocio?
 

blue17

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^^ lol...you beat me to it. This type of stuff really is starting to become a problem around here...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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