"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When girls give you prolonged walking EC

TT2CiN

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Am I right in thinking that in this situation, you really don't need any serious game? If you're walking down the street and a girl gives you EC and maintains it with you from a distance, then if you approach will a simple "hey whats up, or how are you doing?" be fine? No need for anything fancy right? Just maintain a simple convo, with a little humor, flirting and go for the # close? Or should you go for more than a # close in situations like this? Girls doing this = strong sexual attraction right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guitar_Whizz

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Mate, if you get EC while walking it's a huge IOI! Just stop walking and say to her 'ohhhh....you've got a nice smile....are you friendly?' I've field tested this and it works a treat. From there just go into some rappoart and you'll do fine.

But in fact almost anything will do to start the conversation - she's already given you a huge IOI, so is now 'testing' you to see if you're man enough to pick up on her cue and say something to her. You MUST be the first one to utter something....if you do you pass the test, if not, you fail and get no pusvy....so get to it!
 

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Prolonged but she does look away, is an IOI. Also any EC is a test. You must look away last.


She just is not intimidated with your looks, or not disgusted with your lack of looks. In case of former it's a major IOI, she's begging to be approached, she's almost 1 step from approaching you. You pass that test and you approach her without removing your eyes off her, she must look away first. In case of former, suppose she sees a nerd, hypothetically speaking, she knows what nerds do, she's expecting him to fail, such as look away, saying something dumb, or walk by after looking away, so it's her way of controlling the weak, getting that all important ego boost.


The former is equivalent of me looking at a fat chick that is walking by, she'll be all insecure and might say hi, but I just walk by.
 

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I wouldn't say it is a hugh IOI because a girl I know does this to me regularly, she stays a good distance and looks at me, like she doesn't want me to know that im looking at her so she looks at me from a distance...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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