"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When girls give you prolonged walking EC

TT2CiN

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Am I right in thinking that in this situation, you really don't need any serious game? If you're walking down the street and a girl gives you EC and maintains it with you from a distance, then if you approach will a simple "hey whats up, or how are you doing?" be fine? No need for anything fancy right? Just maintain a simple convo, with a little humor, flirting and go for the # close? Or should you go for more than a # close in situations like this? Girls doing this = strong sexual attraction right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Guitar_Whizz

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Mate, if you get EC while walking it's a huge IOI! Just stop walking and say to her 'ohhhh....you've got a nice smile....are you friendly?' I've field tested this and it works a treat. From there just go into some rappoart and you'll do fine.

But in fact almost anything will do to start the conversation - she's already given you a huge IOI, so is now 'testing' you to see if you're man enough to pick up on her cue and say something to her. You MUST be the first one to utter something....if you do you pass the test, if not, you fail and get no pusvy....so get to it!
 

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Prolonged but she does look away, is an IOI. Also any EC is a test. You must look away last.


She just is not intimidated with your looks, or not disgusted with your lack of looks. In case of former it's a major IOI, she's begging to be approached, she's almost 1 step from approaching you. You pass that test and you approach her without removing your eyes off her, she must look away first. In case of former, suppose she sees a nerd, hypothetically speaking, she knows what nerds do, she's expecting him to fail, such as look away, saying something dumb, or walk by after looking away, so it's her way of controlling the weak, getting that all important ego boost.


The former is equivalent of me looking at a fat chick that is walking by, she'll be all insecure and might say hi, but I just walk by.
 

DJ1234

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I wouldn't say it is a hugh IOI because a girl I know does this to me regularly, she stays a good distance and looks at me, like she doesn't want me to know that im looking at her so she looks at me from a distance...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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