When girls call you ****y

[gravityeyelids]

I would like to hear some input from the forum on translating the GirlSpeak when a girl calls you ****y or says "you're too ****y" or "you're too ****y for you're own good". especially when they say it like it's a bad thing.

Now, in general i think a bit of mindless, apathetic ****iness is a good thing. However, i do think that a lot of it should be restrained at that a humble confidence is preferred. Especially when everyone around you KNOWS you're the ****.

Thoughts? I've had THREE different girls today call me this. Two said it like it was a negative thing and one included a winky face about it. Just brush it off and roll with it? Turn it into a joke or a positive? That's what i;m thinking. Just assume it's always an IOI

 

[bigneil]

3 girls in one day can't be wrong. Your behavior obviously defines ****y. It generally means being overconfident with a touch of insecurity and without being playful.

 

[Tictac]

What other people think of you is none of your business

 

[RangerMIke]

If a woman calls you '****y'... that is NOT good. If a girl calls you 'funny', that's a good thing.

You have to be ****y-funny, if she thinks you are ****y, then you are not being funny enough. If she thinks you are funny, then you have the right balance. You should be ****y enough, but not so much that you come off as a douche@g.

If you are too ****y you come off as insecure and overcompensating.

 

[Konada]

What other people think of you is none of your business

With all due respect, there comes a point in time where everyone must set aside their ego and take a good hard look at themselves.

@OP: The common denominator in all interactions is you, so probably yes you are coming across ****y.