“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When girls ask you out to coffee?...
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cactus3178
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"Let's get coffee" = "Here's your chance to up my IL and show me your not a chump like 99% of the guys I've ever met".
And maybe sex later
And maybe sex later
jakeyboy
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most of the time when chicks ask me out for coffee, they have a high IL in me and want to get to know me better... reel her in!
Francisco d'Anconia
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Good answer...
squirrels
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When a girl asks you out to coffee...
...it means, "Why haven't you asked me out to coffee yet??"
Regardless, go. She wants to spend time with you. Build on that.
...it means, "Why haven't you asked me out to coffee yet??"
Regardless, go. She wants to spend time with you. Build on that.
Howie Farkes
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You're confusing "Would you like to go out for coffee?" and "Would you like to come in for coffee?"
One of the above you can pretty safely assume means sex is gonna happen - the other means "you gotta play some more moves first".
One of the above you can pretty safely assume means sex is gonna happen - the other means "you gotta play some more moves first".
SIXPAKGQ
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What if they are asking you out for a coffee just for friendly purposes?
jakeyboy
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how thel hell would you know if she was asking you out for coffee for friendly purposes? its not like she's gonna say..
"hey man... lets go get a coffee at blah coffee house... for friendly purposes only."
she's probably just gonna say.. hey lets go get a cuppa.
if you simply like her as a friend and you know her intentions are solely friendly (though i dunno how you came to that conclusion) then by all means, hang with her.
"hey man... lets go get a coffee at blah coffee house... for friendly purposes only."
she's probably just gonna say.. hey lets go get a cuppa.
if you simply like her as a friend and you know her intentions are solely friendly (though i dunno how you came to that conclusion) then by all means, hang with her.
Tweek_1984
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What about the other way around. Should you ever ask her out ot coffee?
I've known this girl for quite a while at uni, but I failed the year and took a year out in my home town. I'm back at uni now and I havent seen this chick for over a year. We havent met up again yet but we keep swapping texts. One of my mates suggested that I should ask her out for coffee.
I don't even like coffee to be honest.
Anyways, whats the best way to handle this situation?
I've known this girl for quite a while at uni, but I failed the year and took a year out in my home town. I'm back at uni now and I havent seen this chick for over a year. We havent met up again yet but we keep swapping texts. One of my mates suggested that I should ask her out for coffee.
I don't even like coffee to be honest.
Anyways, whats the best way to handle this situation?
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
"hey join me (fill in time) at (fill in place) for some stimulating conversation and a cuppa something wonderful"