"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aight guys... my girl gave me head last night but i wasn't wrapped up... just curious bout whether or not i should use a condom or not... whish would be best(condom or not) and why? and if i was to get head in the future without a condom what should i look out for and why?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to use a condom during oral sex.

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yes there is matrix. use a condom for ur own good dude, u can get the flavored ones for the chick if u want to. But ya u can get stds through oral sex, so watch out. just my $.02
 
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Originally posted by mtllcanpssy
yes there is matrix. use a condom for ur own good dude, u can get the flavored ones for the chick if u want to. But ya u can get stds through oral sex, so watch out. just my $.02
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I'm sorry... sometimes I forget to put an emphasis on things.

Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to wear a condom whilst having oral sex.

I have taken a sexuality class or two to know that although you can receive sexually transmitted diseases from oral sex the chances of that occurring are very small for two main reasons.

1. Many sexually transmitted diseases do not make the transition to the saliva of the mouth (if that was the case... we all may have sexually transmitted diseases by now). Excluding the rare strainds of these viruses... most of them are not communable throught the mouth of the saliva.

2. The conditions required for catching a sexual transmitted disease from oral sex are so extreme, that it is almost impossible. One... the girl would have to have some sort of lesions in her mouth, and you on your ****... and even then the chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease from her is still very small. Simply because (contrary to popular urban myths and uninformed opinions) you need a good amount of exposure to the disease in order to catch it... because the viruses are not "active" (communable) all the time... sometimes they are dormant and are not spread... other times they are not.

With that in mind... if it makes you that nervous... make a trip to the clinic and have each other tested (does not cost that much)... if not... then leave off the condom because even most of the flavored ones do not taste good and from what I have heard... you may as well not engage in oral sex if you are going to wear a condom.

Everybody does it... its just that nobody talks about it.
 
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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
I'm sorry... sometimes I forget to put an emphasis on things.

Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to wear a condom whilst having oral sex.
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lol.
No condom!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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theres a rule about stds. there are only two kinds of stds that cant be gotten rid of. and only chics can get em. cept aids i guess. so dont **** hoodrats :D
 
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I read that something like 90 % of the population has oral herpies. Basically, if you've ever had a cold sore then you have oral herpes.
 
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oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang

you can how ever get oral herpes on your butt, don't know how the **** they ended up on my butt. Doc said it was more common then you would think, and no my girl wasn't licking my crack out, and no i wasn't getting ass rammed
 
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Originally posted by Melder
oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang

you can how ever get oral herpes on your butt, don't know how the **** they ended up on my butt. Doc said it was more common then you would think, and no my girl wasn't licking my crack out, and no i wasn't getting ass rammed
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Then what the **** was she doing..?
 
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Some people are actually born with type 2 herpes (std). And you can get it on your bum. also if you have herpes it can spread to other sensitive areas
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Melder
oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang
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False. Its just that the herpes simplex common to mouths has a VERY low chance of outbreak if it is contracted by the genitals
 
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