"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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when gettin head from your girl of fvck buddy

MakeItHappen

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aight guys... my girl gave me head last night but i wasn't wrapped up... just curious bout whether or not i should use a condom or not... whish would be best(condom or not) and why? and if i was to get head in the future without a condom what should i look out for and why?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to use a condom during oral sex.

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mtllcanpssy

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yes there is matrix. use a condom for ur own good dude, u can get the flavored ones for the chick if u want to. But ya u can get stds through oral sex, so watch out. just my $.02
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by mtllcanpssy
yes there is matrix. use a condom for ur own good dude, u can get the flavored ones for the chick if u want to. But ya u can get stds through oral sex, so watch out. just my $.02
I'm sorry... sometimes I forget to put an emphasis on things.

Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to wear a condom whilst having oral sex.

I have taken a sexuality class or two to know that although you can receive sexually transmitted diseases from oral sex the chances of that occurring are very small for two main reasons.

1. Many sexually transmitted diseases do not make the transition to the saliva of the mouth (if that was the case... we all may have sexually transmitted diseases by now). Excluding the rare strainds of these viruses... most of them are not communable throught the mouth of the saliva.

2. The conditions required for catching a sexual transmitted disease from oral sex are so extreme, that it is almost impossible. One... the girl would have to have some sort of lesions in her mouth, and you on your ****... and even then the chances of catching a sexually transmitted disease from her is still very small. Simply because (contrary to popular urban myths and uninformed opinions) you need a good amount of exposure to the disease in order to catch it... because the viruses are not "active" (communable) all the time... sometimes they are dormant and are not spread... other times they are not.

With that in mind... if it makes you that nervous... make a trip to the clinic and have each other tested (does not cost that much)... if not... then leave off the condom because even most of the flavored ones do not taste good and from what I have heard... you may as well not engage in oral sex if you are going to wear a condom.

Everybody does it... its just that nobody talks about it.
 

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
I'm sorry... sometimes I forget to put an emphasis on things.

Unless you have the feeling that your girlfriend may have oral herpes... there is no reason to wear a condom whilst having oral sex.
lol.
No condom!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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theres a rule about stds. there are only two kinds of stds that cant be gotten rid of. and only chics can get em. cept aids i guess. so dont **** hoodrats :D
 

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I read that something like 90 % of the population has oral herpies. Basically, if you've ever had a cold sore then you have oral herpes.
 

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oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang

you can how ever get oral herpes on your butt, don't know how the **** they ended up on my butt. Doc said it was more common then you would think, and no my girl wasn't licking my crack out, and no i wasn't getting ass rammed
 

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Originally posted by Melder
oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang

you can how ever get oral herpes on your butt, don't know how the **** they ended up on my butt. Doc said it was more common then you would think, and no my girl wasn't licking my crack out, and no i wasn't getting ass rammed
Then what the **** was she doing..?
 

Vincent

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Some people are actually born with type 2 herpes (std). And you can get it on your bum. also if you have herpes it can spread to other sensitive areas
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Melder
oral herpes is a different virus to genital herpes, so you can't get oral herpes on ya wang
False. Its just that the herpes simplex common to mouths has a VERY low chance of outbreak if it is contracted by the genitals
 
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