Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
what do you do? lol :crackup: but seriously...is there any game to this or is it a simple thank you... like for example if they compliment you on your looks, what do you say in response
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When females compliment you...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KontrollerX
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I like to default to cliche'd oldies but goodies for this type of thing...
Chick: You're awesome.
KX: I know.
Chick: *giggles while panties get soaked*
Chick: You're awesome.
KX: I know.
Chick: *giggles while panties get soaked*
MotownMack
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It depends on the chick.
I think there is time and place for game, but sometimes good old fashion manners is the way to go. It depends on how long I've know her, if the compliment is sincere, etc. But you can still add a joke, and/or compliment in her back.
Physical compliments (you can use this one for just about any physical compliment):
HB: You have the most beautiful blue eyes. (I get this one a lot)
Me: Aww, how sweet, thank you. We'd have some good looking children, huh?
(and maybe I'll add) Wanna get started? (and maybe, if you're in a restaurant or bar, pretending to motion to waiter) Check please!
Personality compliments:
HB: You're such a sweetheart.
Me: (smile) Thanks, just don't tell anyone, you'll ruin my reputation.
HB: You're so funny!
Me: Oh gee thanks, clowns are funny too. Are you calling me a clown? Fine, then you're the bearded lady.
Remember-this is kind of an important phase. If she's complimenting you, you're on your away, you're already winning her over. Don't screw it up by being too ****y.
I think there is time and place for game, but sometimes good old fashion manners is the way to go. It depends on how long I've know her, if the compliment is sincere, etc. But you can still add a joke, and/or compliment in her back.
Physical compliments (you can use this one for just about any physical compliment):
HB: You have the most beautiful blue eyes. (I get this one a lot)
Me: Aww, how sweet, thank you. We'd have some good looking children, huh?
(and maybe I'll add) Wanna get started? (and maybe, if you're in a restaurant or bar, pretending to motion to waiter) Check please!
Personality compliments:
HB: You're such a sweetheart.
Me: (smile) Thanks, just don't tell anyone, you'll ruin my reputation.
HB: You're so funny!
Me: Oh gee thanks, clowns are funny too. Are you calling me a clown? Fine, then you're the bearded lady.
Remember-this is kind of an important phase. If she's complimenting you, you're on your away, you're already winning her over. Don't screw it up by being too ****y.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
It totally depends on the type of compliment.....I use the logic of the method of that first poster there a lot...
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
HER: Well, Ive always thought you looked hot.
ME: STOP LEADING ME ON! I KNOW THAT YOUR JUST OUT THERE TO BREAK MY HEART!
HER: No, im just saying-
ME: NO! YOU FCUKING WH0RE! I KNOW THAT YOU'RE JUST TRYING TO LEAD ME ON! YOU STUPID FCUKING HO ASS B!TCH!
j/k
I just kinda smile or something when I get complimented.
ME: STOP LEADING ME ON! I KNOW THAT YOUR JUST OUT THERE TO BREAK MY HEART!
HER: No, im just saying-
ME: NO! YOU FCUKING WH0RE! I KNOW THAT YOU'RE JUST TRYING TO LEAD ME ON! YOU STUPID FCUKING HO ASS B!TCH!
j/k
I just kinda smile or something when I get complimented.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
Her: I love your style
Me: thanks I like your lips
(proceed to make out) haha
Her: I like you shirt it looks good on you
Me: whoa i just met you and you already want to take my shirt off(smiling)
Just a few examples
Me: thanks I like your lips
(proceed to make out) haha
Her: I like you shirt it looks good on you
Me: whoa i just met you and you already want to take my shirt off(smiling)
Just a few examples
That's a cool answer, I like it. But what I wanted to touch on is that, sometimes, these aren't compliments.
I was with some folks a few weeks ago and I noticed this one girl in the group had a habit of stating her itinerary just about every time she was planning something with someone. Along the lines of, "Hey, we should go to that concert! Let's see, Saturday, I'm going shopping, and then visiting my aunt, so after that we could hook up..."
So after a couple of those, I pointed out that's what she does, in a funny way. Everyone laughed. She said, "You're so funny!", which at the moment I thought was not a bad thing.
But it struck me odd at the time. It was just the way she said it. Anyway, that's what kept it on my mind and I thought about it, and I think it was her way of saying, "You're such an a$$hole." Of course, it just reflects on her inability to laugh at herself.
Come to think of it, I've heard variations of that one before. "You're TOO funny!" is another one. I don't think that's a compliment. I think it's also woman-speak.
If they're laughing and have big grins and leaning forward and touching your arm when they say that, then it's probably a compliment. You have to watch the body language to decipher it.