"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When everything feels hopeless, what one truth you hold upon

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Like "life is this and that.. but god" or "think therefore I am" or "have debts"...

What's your single thing that you know for sure when things confusing
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That if you want anything done right, you do it yourself.
 

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This "truth" is my own philosophy, but it's a theory to which anyone can benefit.

Friends, family members and women can (and sometimes will) disappoint you.
As long as you like and believe in yourself (based on being true to yourself) you'll never feel lonely or alone.
 
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nothing will last forever
Yeah easy one to fall because each morning you see the same face in the mirror so you dont see the progressive change

Omg what a bi

Question Dr. Fauci.
Who's this
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Its easy to feel that things would stay as they are because from day to day you cant notice change, because change takes time
thats why i believe in working out and looksmaxxing yeah it takes time, but its not forever you can change if you want for some it takes more time than others

i believe in looksmaxing and self-improvement , maybe its a mix of all pills you cant deny blackpills looksmaxxing and red pill ''knowledge'' but also blue pill indifference comes in handy when you are trying to ''un-arm'' women
 
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"You have to know when to hold'em: and know when to fold'em." Life is a series of poker hands, don't sweat the little failures: don't get too enthusiastic with the little successes. Life is the long game and this takes patience because a vast majority of things that happen around you is out of your control. You can not control the cards you are dealt, you can only control how you play the hand.
 

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What's your single thing that you know for sure when things confusing
I have this little metal spinning top.

When I think I may have slipped into another dimension, I spin my little top.

If it falls over, I'm good.

If it keeps spinning, I sit and watch it carefully while chugging some Old Crow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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don't sweat the little failures: don't get too enthusiastic with the little successes.
Similar with billiards, need to stay focused and calm

I have this little metal spinning top.

When I think I may have slipped into another dimension, I spin my little top.

If it falls over, I'm good.

If it keeps spinning, I sit and watch it carefully while chugging some Old Crow.
this?

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That's dope lol
Need one like this
 

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Several things:

If you are going through hell, keep going
-Winston Churchill

Lose your dreams and you will lose your mind
-The Rolling Stones (Goodbye Ruby Tuesday)

All things work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose
-Romans 8:28 in the Bible
 

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Life is all about going through various experiences and learning from them.

This leads to even more fulfilling experiences down the road.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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