You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
same heres.Originally posted by NYC Dude
September 8th. Just a few weeks away.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
September 12. annnnnnnything else?Originally posted by whyshy
Sep. 9. Let's see if any of you can top that!
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good luck guys! Force yourselves to be more outgoing, and approach approach approach
I don't care wether I'm outgoin or not in hgh school. Its too d*mn fake everybody so happy all the dang time, and people kno that ain't the real world. Tryna fit in and sh*t, f*ck high school.Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good luck guys! Force yourselves to be more outgoing, and approach approach approach
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
While this is true, you might try and get some girls while you are at it.Originally posted by dadmonson
I don't care wether I'm outgoin or not in hgh school. Its too d*mn fake everybody so happy all the dang time, and people kno that ain't the real world. Tryna fit in and sh*t, f*ck high school.