Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
same heres.Originally posted by NYC Dude
September 8th. Just a few weeks away.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
September 12. annnnnnnything else?Originally posted by whyshy
Sep. 9. Let's see if any of you can top that!
Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good luck guys! Force yourselves to be more outgoing, and approach approach approach
I don't care wether I'm outgoin or not in hgh school. Its too d*mn fake everybody so happy all the dang time, and people kno that ain't the real world. Tryna fit in and sh*t, f*ck high school.Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Good luck guys! Force yourselves to be more outgoing, and approach approach approach
- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
While this is true, you might try and get some girls while you are at it.Originally posted by dadmonson
I don't care wether I'm outgoin or not in hgh school. Its too d*mn fake everybody so happy all the dang time, and people kno that ain't the real world. Tryna fit in and sh*t, f*ck high school.