"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When does a women begin to despise a man?

ethnomethodologist

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Players
Jerks
Stupid Jocks
Whiny nerds
Shut-ins
Big ego business men
Lying lawyers
Uncaring doctors
Lazy pilots
mamas boys
wussy's
flaming homos
annoying pricks

I have played all of these roles. I have lied and displayed all of these traits to women at different times in my life. In the beginning, there was interest due to my ice breakers. In the end, they avoided me, due to my inability to change.

Why is it, that it is so hard for somebody to tell you how to change, and what is it that women don't enjoy about you?

If I am desperate, I can still have people give me things, I just have to make their interest level greater than the negativity in my persistence.

Where is the line drawn? Where is the edge? when does the bubble pop?

Assuming attraction, being c0cky, neghitting... this all can work without comedy, what is it that women enjoy in this process?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want my 0.02$ then stop playing roles! I've been down this road a long time and it is not a way I recommend to go with. Improve yourself, go to the gym, find out what YOU want, not what you must do for the girl to like you.
 

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i laughed when i seen this (flaming homos). thats the only role i never attempted. but ya do what you gotta do sometimes.

did it work?
 

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insanity said:
i laughed when i seen this (flaming homos). thats the only role i never attempted. but ya do what you gotta do sometimes.

did it work?
Perfectly, I just hated the reputation I received from doing so. I got a lot of ugly stares from guys who wanted to kick my ass.

When I get going on the fake flaming homo routine I get so excited, there is no person safe from my wily charms. It completely destroys any conversational barriers about what a man shouldn't talk about.
 

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Yeah, I've pretended to be gay before. Interesting experience.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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