"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When does a women begin to despise a man?

ethnomethodologist

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Players
Jerks
Stupid Jocks
Whiny nerds
Shut-ins
Big ego business men
Lying lawyers
Uncaring doctors
Lazy pilots
mamas boys
wussy's
flaming homos
annoying pricks

I have played all of these roles. I have lied and displayed all of these traits to women at different times in my life. In the beginning, there was interest due to my ice breakers. In the end, they avoided me, due to my inability to change.

Why is it, that it is so hard for somebody to tell you how to change, and what is it that women don't enjoy about you?

If I am desperate, I can still have people give me things, I just have to make their interest level greater than the negativity in my persistence.

Where is the line drawn? Where is the edge? when does the bubble pop?

Assuming attraction, being c0cky, neghitting... this all can work without comedy, what is it that women enjoy in this process?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you want my 0.02$ then stop playing roles! I've been down this road a long time and it is not a way I recommend to go with. Improve yourself, go to the gym, find out what YOU want, not what you must do for the girl to like you.
 

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i laughed when i seen this (flaming homos). thats the only role i never attempted. but ya do what you gotta do sometimes.

did it work?
 

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insanity said:
i laughed when i seen this (flaming homos). thats the only role i never attempted. but ya do what you gotta do sometimes.

did it work?
Perfectly, I just hated the reputation I received from doing so. I got a lot of ugly stares from guys who wanted to kick my ass.

When I get going on the fake flaming homo routine I get so excited, there is no person safe from my wily charms. It completely destroys any conversational barriers about what a man shouldn't talk about.
 

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Yeah, I've pretended to be gay before. Interesting experience.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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