“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When do you usually call numbers?

ElStud

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Well today I successfully got 2 number closes and I'm wondering when do you guys usually call your numbers? I was planning on just calling them tonight, but I didn't know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jafyk

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They usually say 2 -3 days. Some people say it depends on the vibe you got. I've called a number the next day and set up a date for 2 days later and it worked.
 

Aragon034

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rule of thumb, 2-3 days.

there are alot of variables.

If you got a good vibe/seem geniunely interested in hanging out/asked when you were going to hang out, within a day.

otherwise, i'd wait 2 or 3, and yes, you should be a busy man, this should come through in your conversations and day 2 planning.

Good hunting.
 

tsmith2334

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Aragon034 said:
rule of thumb, 2-3 days.

there are alot of variables.

If you got a good vibe/seem geniunely interested in hanging out/asked when you were going to hang out, within a day.

otherwise, i'd wait 2 or 3, and yes, you should be a busy man, this should come through in your conversations and day 2 planning.

Good hunting.
+1

Me and you are usually on the same page Aragon :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AmpleReason

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I say choose a period of time and stick with it. Don't second guess yourself if she doesn't answer or reply to a text message, could be any number of reasons.

One girl I met last weekend asked for my number so I gave it to her and she gave me mine, I text her after about 4 hours completely smashed out of my face. We went back and forth like this for an hour or so. Haven't heard from her since.

In hindsight, saying her messages were crap might have been a bad idea.
 

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i've called girls that gave me their numbers from online dating sites after 2,3 maybe 4 weeks, and they didn'd seem very offended! The only way you could act LIKE A PUSS is calling too early! For me is MINIMUM 5 days! Of course it depends how you got her number!
 

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My record is a year. I like to leave it awhile, just to see how much impact I made on her. I only recently texted a chick I met about 8 months ago aswell, she said it took her about 10 minutes to remember me, better than not at all I guess.

I'm pretty much now sold on the idea you can call a chick whenever you want as long as she has fond memories of your initial meet.
 
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