"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When do you usually call numbers?

ElStud

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Well today I successfully got 2 number closes and I'm wondering when do you guys usually call your numbers? I was planning on just calling them tonight, but I didn't know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jafyk

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They usually say 2 -3 days. Some people say it depends on the vibe you got. I've called a number the next day and set up a date for 2 days later and it worked.
 

Aragon034

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rule of thumb, 2-3 days.

there are alot of variables.

If you got a good vibe/seem geniunely interested in hanging out/asked when you were going to hang out, within a day.

otherwise, i'd wait 2 or 3, and yes, you should be a busy man, this should come through in your conversations and day 2 planning.

Good hunting.
 

tsmith2334

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Aragon034 said:
rule of thumb, 2-3 days.

there are alot of variables.

If you got a good vibe/seem geniunely interested in hanging out/asked when you were going to hang out, within a day.

otherwise, i'd wait 2 or 3, and yes, you should be a busy man, this should come through in your conversations and day 2 planning.

Good hunting.
+1

Me and you are usually on the same page Aragon :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AmpleReason

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I say choose a period of time and stick with it. Don't second guess yourself if she doesn't answer or reply to a text message, could be any number of reasons.

One girl I met last weekend asked for my number so I gave it to her and she gave me mine, I text her after about 4 hours completely smashed out of my face. We went back and forth like this for an hour or so. Haven't heard from her since.

In hindsight, saying her messages were crap might have been a bad idea.
 

parrot84

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i've called girls that gave me their numbers from online dating sites after 2,3 maybe 4 weeks, and they didn'd seem very offended! The only way you could act LIKE A PUSS is calling too early! For me is MINIMUM 5 days! Of course it depends how you got her number!
 

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My record is a year. I like to leave it awhile, just to see how much impact I made on her. I only recently texted a chick I met about 8 months ago aswell, she said it took her about 10 minutes to remember me, better than not at all I guess.

I'm pretty much now sold on the idea you can call a chick whenever you want as long as she has fond memories of your initial meet.
 
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