SW15
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Agree, sample sizes of one mean nothing and the event happened in late 2012.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When do you call for a second date?
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sosuave213
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She just unmatched me on Hinge.
Bullet dodged?
Bullet dodged?
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Guys get into way too much trouble worrying about this kind of thing.
The old rule used to be 3 days to text after the 1st date unless she reached out first. At the end of the day, that rule existed to admonish men who are overly thirsty and wanting to spam text a chick they just took out for the first time. Because that kills mystery and by operation, kills attraction.
However, if you are confident and the date went very well, my experience has been you hurt yourself more by simply disappearing completely without a trace for over a week after that. Carrying positive momentum is not a bad thing. No, you don't want to be overly available or spam texting, but disappearing many times can be sniffed out by these women as game playing and hurt you in the long run -- mostly because you leave the door open for some other guy to come in.
The old rule used to be 3 days to text after the 1st date unless she reached out first. At the end of the day, that rule existed to admonish men who are overly thirsty and wanting to spam text a chick they just took out for the first time. Because that kills mystery and by operation, kills attraction.
However, if you are confident and the date went very well, my experience has been you hurt yourself more by simply disappearing completely without a trace for over a week after that. Carrying positive momentum is not a bad thing. No, you don't want to be overly available or spam texting, but disappearing many times can be sniffed out by these women as game playing and hurt you in the long run -- mostly because you leave the door open for some other guy to come in.
Yeah, by her
sosuave213
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Kick a man while he's down. Nice.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.